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Sex and Sexuality
Sex without Intercourse
The following is just to get your imagination going. The rest is up to you. Of course, you can make all or some of them part of your regular love-making if you are having intercourse.
Body Rubbing
Using parts of your body or your entire body to rub against your partner bringing them sexual pleasure and orgasism. This can be fully clothed - safer if you are practicing abstinence - or naked. You do not enter any body cavity with body rubbing, just rub against each other.
Erotica
First the difference between erotica and hard-core pornography. Erotica stimulates the sexual imagination by words, pictures, and music in telling of sexual adventures and situations but letting your imagination be part of the implicit, not explicit, nature of the material. Pornography is explicit portrayal of sex in books, movies, or pictures. Read erotic stories to each other, eben over the phone. Look at pictures.
Watch soft-core movies together. Use your imagination to guide you and discuss the places you will go if and when you make that decision.
 Erotic
Massage
Erotic massage is a slow sensual massage that uses your hands, mouth and body to stimulate your partner. It can include long strokes, oral sex, mutual masturbation and anything else that feels good to your partner.
Masturbation
Everyone does it - even if they won't and don't admit it. Self-pleasuring is the most common form of sex play. You can share this with your partner and either masturbate each other or watch each other masturbate.
Role Play
Fantasies
Acting out fantasies can be fun, exciting, and freeing for your imagination. Using costumes can certainly make it even more fun. Make sure to make an agreement with your partner as how far the fantasy will go and when it will end, (i.e; before intercourse).
Toys
There are many different sex toys available now. Vibrators, dildos, and clitoral stimulators can be shared with your partner. They can give provide maimum pleasure without intercourse. You can stroke, probe, stimulate, caress, and obtain orgasm using these devises.
However, be sure to always follow safer sex practices:
- Use condoms to cover your toys and always use fresh condoms with each new partner and body part.
- Always clean toys after each use.
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Virtual Sex
Use online chat rooms. Virtual sex involves a lot of imagination and masturbation to get a climax. No need to worry about birth control, STI's or your partner.
Be sure to never give out your personal information online.
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Erogenous Zones
An erogenous zone is any part of the body that causes sexual arousal when stimulated. Below are several common erogenous zones for both men and women.
Nipples
Both men and women have thin muscle fibers in their nipples that enable them to become erect. Nipples also have a lot of nerve endings, which explains why they respond so rapidly to stimulation. This can be most anything, from gentle touching to licking and sucking -- or simply being in a very cold area. While there are people who don't enjoy any sort of nipple play, there are also men and women who, given enough stimulation, can orgasm from it!
Abdomen and Navel
It's a shame that a lot of people don't pay more attention to this region, particularly the lower stomach, thanks to its proximity to your erogenous nether regions. Try lightly running a finger or your tongue around the navel, then slowly down to the pubic bones.
Ear Lobes
The ear is an extremely sensitive organ and can be a powerful erogenous zone. Most people become very aroused when the ear and earlobe are nuzzled and kissed, thanks to a plethora of nerve endings located here.
The Neck
The neck is a wonderfully sensitive and vulnerable area. For most people, soft nibbles along the neck is a straight shot to arousal. In fact, the neck is so popular it even inspired the expression "necking."
Thighs
The thighs are so responsive to touch that even an accidental brush can be remarkably sexy. Try tracing lines along the thighs with your fingertips, gently kissing the insides or letting your hair brush lightly across them.
Skin
Your skin is not only your largest organ; it's also your biggest erogenous zone. True, some areas have a higher concentration of nerve endings than others, but for most people, every inch is receptive to stimulation. Try different textures and pressures, different uses of the tongue and lips, and gaging the reactions to each to find your partner(s) most sensitive areas.
The Back
In fact, the back is probably the most overworked and under-appreciated erogenous zone we have! The back is a wide expanse of skin which begs to be touched and caressed, and its proximity to the rear end also makes it a fantastic foreplay zone.
The Feet
Your feet might just be the most responsive part of your anatomy -- simply because they don't get the sexual attention that other areas do. Anyone who's ever had their toes sucked can tell you it's a highly erotic experience. As with any body part, freshly cleaned is best, so start by washing the feet with a nice-smelling soap, then massaging them with an edible oil. Then, lick up and down the sole of the foot and around the toes, maybe even lightly sucking the toes, and watch them curl with pleasure!
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